Building true confidence is a gradual process. No one is going to suddenly turn into a positive self-confident person overnight. But if you're in need of some extra confidence, here are seven secrets to building unstoppable confidence that are no longer under cover.
1. Stop comparing yourself to others.The worst thing you can do is compare yourself to others. Remember that you're seeing the surface of their lives, not the underlying reality. Focus instead on what's important--your own strengths and goals.
2. Remember that the loudest is not the most confident. We tend to look to the blow-your-own-horn types as the confident ones--but some of the most successful are the gentle giants, the humble and self-effacing people who turn out to be the strongest, the people we come to admire more and more as we come to appreciate their depth.
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